BEWARE SINGLES: Part 2… BEWARE OF THESE TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS 1. THE TIME WASTERS-I have often joked that the engagement ring that stays long in a lady’s hand turns to a hand-cuff. Most ladies blindly stay in relationship that is stand-still and heading nowhere. Why wasting over two year with a guy that is not willing to define the relationship, steer it to the direction of commitment and give you a timeline for the final destination at the altar? I have seen so many ladies who waited in hope that a guy will marry them but after many wasted years, the guys dump them and marry someone else. Know when to stay and when to move on. 2. THE MANIPULATOR: Guys should flee from ladies who manipulate their emotions in subtle ways that make them feel trapped in relationships. Manipulators always see the need to advance their own purposes and personal gain at virtually any cost to others. Some have been trapped men in a marriage with a pregnancy that was well timed and allowed by the lady. Some men also manipulate ladies by making relationships and marriages look as they are doing the ladies great favours by befriending them and marrying them. Manipulators are happy when you beg and cry. They see a strong need to attain feelings of power and superiority in relationships with others 3. THE INTERNATIONAL: I am not a big fan of international relationship with marriage on the agenda. Some people are over excited if someone overseas declares an intention for marriage. The joy of travelling or running out of Nigeria blinds them from through background check and adaptability in cross-cultural environment. Many guys overseas have married legally to obtain resident papers. They divorced their wives in order to marry a home girl. Meanwhile, some home girls are going there to stay a little while, then divorce the home boy to marry a foreigner. 4. THE SOCIAL MEDIA SWEETHEART- All that glitters in the social media is not true love but cyber flirt and infatuation. Some start their dating on Facebook, 2go, whatsApp and others and even propose or agree to the marriage proposal without seeing the person face to face and having no knowledge of the family background or health status. Only fine pictures appear on the social media. By the time some meet face to face, they start withdrawing bcos all was not seen at the first time. 5. TIMOTHY OFOEGBU is a trained Relationship counselor. For advice, inbox him on Facebook or call/text him on 08037777755
Posted on: Sun, 13 Jul 2014 01:13:51 +0000
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