✿ Be Open to Change✿ Prepare for change✿ Embrace Change✿ ✿ Start. Trust. Love. Be Who You Are. Let Go. Create. Grow. Be Fearless. Flow. ✿ ✿1. Reduce expectations. In each of my life’s circumstances, I had high expectations for my family, my business, and my marriage. I had expected each to remain constant and to last forever. But I’ve learned that nothing lasts forever. Nothing. You can have reasonable expectations of how you’d like something to turn out, but you can’t marry yourself to that result. Reducing or having no expectations about a relationship, a business, or a situation can help you accept whatever may come from it. When you set reasonable expectations, and don’t expect or demand a particular outcome, you’re better able to manage any changes that do come your way. Unreasonable expectations of life, however, will likely be met with loss, disappointment, and pain. ✿2. Acknowledge change. For the longest time, I refused to believe that change was in the realm of possibility in a situation. I’ve since learned that change can happen quickly and at any point. Be aware that change can happen in your life. This means understanding that things can and will be different from how they are now. Acknowledging change is allowing it to happen when it unfolds instead of approaching change from a place of denial and resistance. ✿3. Accept change. I desperately tried to prevent and stop change from happening in my business and marriage by trying to forge ahead even in futile situations. Instead of resisting, allow change to unfold and try to understand what’s transforming and why. Circumstances will not turn out the way you want them to, and it’s perfectly all right. Embracing the situation can help you deal with the change effectively, make the necessary shifts in your life to embrace the change, and help you move forward after the event. ✿4. Learn from the experience. If you accept and embrace change, you will start looking for and finding lessons in it. When dramatic changes were happening in my life, I refused to acknowledge them at first, so change left me distraught and without meaning. Once I reflected back and finally accepted the changes, the lessons I started absorbing were profound. Change becomes your greatest teacher, but only if you give yourself permission to learn from it. ✿5. Recognize you’re growing stronger. When you accept, embrace, and learn from change, you inevitably grow stronger. The ability to continuously accept change allows you to become as solid as a rock in the midst of violent storms all around you—even if you feel afraid. ✿6. Embrace the wisdom. The more I permitted change and impermanence in my life, the more I grew as a person. Embracing change has brought newfound strength into my life and surprisingly, more inner peace. When you proactively embrace change and learn to accept it as a part of life, you are filled with more calmness, peace, and courage. When life fails to shake you up with its twists and turns, you realize that changes can’t break you. You’ve reached a level of understanding in life that some might even call wisdom. While by no means have I reached that place called wisdom, I’m working through my aversions to change. I now openly welcome and embrace it. When we can accept change, learn from it, and become all the better for experiencing it. It becomes our teacher.
Posted on: Thu, 27 Jun 2013 12:10:42 +0000
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