Be very sure of the need and your motivation to confront. Many times, people have it in their heads that it’s their responsibility to point out to the disturbed character in their life what that person is doing wrong so they will “see the light” and then modify their behavior. This, of course, assumes that the person doesn’t already know what they’re doing, or why they’re doing it, and will somehow be motivated to take a different course if someone just points things out to them. But disturbed characters are usually well-aware. What they need – and more importantly, what you need to empower yourself – are firmly established limits on behavior. And it’s simply not necessary
Posted on: Mon, 17 Jun 2013 01:38:25 +0000
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