Beautiful letter written by a father to his son Following is a letter to his sone from a renowned Hong Kong TV broadcaster cum child phsychologist. The words are actually applicable to all of us, young or old, children or parents! This applies to daughters too. All parents can use this in their teachings to their children. Dear son, I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons. 1. life, fortune and mishaps are unpredictable, no body knows how long he lives. Some worda re better said early. 2. I am your father, and if I dont tell you these, no one wlse will. 3. What is written in my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches. Remember the following as you go through life. Do not bear grudge towards thosew who ar not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and I. To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and also you have to be cautious, because, everyone has a motive for every move. When aperson is good toyou, it does not mean he really likes you. You have to be careful, dont hastily regard him as a real friend. No one is indispensable, nothing in the world that you must possess. Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you dont want you anymore, or when you lose what / who you love most. Life is short. When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure yourlife, the better you enjoy life. Love is but a transiet feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and with ones mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness. Dont over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love, and dont over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love. A lot os succefful people did not receive a good education, but that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! What ever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life. One can go from rages to rices, but one has to start from some rags! I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor. You honour your words, but dont expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but dont expect people to be good to you. If you dont understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles. I have brought lotteries for umpteen years, but I could never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! there is no free lunch! No matter how much time I have with you, let treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life. Yours Pappa
Posted on: Mon, 13 Oct 2014 08:39:26 +0000
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