Before I lay it down: “What’s it worth to ya?” So, you had an argument and you just can’t STAND the person you’re with now. You’ve had it about up to here (inset mental image of hand extended under yo neck) with Mr. Lover Boy or Big Toof NeNe. Last check, you guys have been together for double-digit years and you can’t take it NO MO! Every time you look at that bastard/bastardess, you just wanna ball up yo fist and knock the bull-shiggity out of them. You just wanna throw everything you’ve built together AWAY and start over alone or with someone else. That relationship that you’re talking about is on the verge of total collapse, but I got one question for you: What’s it worth to ya? Living with and loving another individual is one hell of a job. Just ask yo mom and dad. Better yet, ask yo Big Momma/Madea or Paw Paw. This generation of married folk is about as weak as the Houston Texanns defense. Any time they face adversity, they just throw in the towel. Needless to say, they don’t throw away the entire franchise; they just make some minor adjustments. Why? Because the franchise is worth more than the problems. I’m going somewhere with this……. Your marriages are worth more than what you value them to be. You have to find a way to make them work out. Truth be told, many marriages that have surpassed the 25-30 year mark have not been pictures of beauty or works of art. These couples will tell you that the most common denominator in a “successful” marriage is knowing how much it’s worth to you. I’m not talking about monetary value, either. I know that I can piss Julle off something miserably, and her cute ass can do the same to me. Still, we manage to find a way to work it out. Her snoring is grounds for divorce. My “snawting” (due to hay fever and sinus issues) can cause her many restless nights, too, but somehow we’ve made it through all of that. We’ve had problems that you guys will never know of (It ain’tcho damn business) and she’s thrown a couple of punches at me. I’m good at ducking and weaving, though. Them Hempstead girls ain’t sked of NOBODY. Still, we know what life would be like without each other. We value our relationship. It’s worth a lot more than we’re willing to give up. In closing, the devil will try to break up your marriages. He’ll show you things that you think you have to have; he’ll give you flavors you think you’ll have to taste and he’ll give you the sneakiness of a stealth bomber, but when it’s all said and done, he’ll watch you lose the best thing that ever happened to you. What’s it worth to ya? Only you guys will know. God bless and good night.
Posted on: Mon, 21 Apr 2014 03:20:23 +0000
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