Being a Good Kisser (FOR GUYS) Assess the Situation You cant just rush into a kiss. There should be things that should lead to a kiss―this will heighten the pleasure much more. Have you been flirting throughout the evening? Good. Have you got the vibes that shes as much into you, as you are into her? Better. So now that you know she wants you to kiss her, itll be easier for you. But if you are not sure, then just try a simple pulling her to yourself and gently kissing her lips―if she doesnt like it, shell push you away. Getting Started When you are close together, lean into her and softly, very softly, brush your lips against hers. If she does not want to kiss you, and you read the signals wrong, she wont let you go any further (be sure of that). Thats when you should pull away. But if shes into you, she will most probably always close her eyes and lean in closer. This is when you press your lips against hers. Remember to be very gentle. Initiate the kiss and let it linger. Dont rush into it and push your tongue down her throat. The French Kiss The French kiss is hands down one of the most passionate kissing styles. French kissing is when you bring in your tongues when youre kissing. But it is not necessary to lead into a French kiss immediately. That could wait for another day. Yet, if you want to experiment, just open your mouth slightly and let your tongue outline her lips. Just slightly. If she wants to head into the French kiss, shell part her lips and try to match you action for action. Thats when you take the hint and go in for the kiss. Experiment with the kind of pressure and force you want to use. Dont forget to key in for some positive signs like sighing or soft moaning from her, and youll have enough to go by―knowing what she likes or doesnt. Use Your Hands Kissing isnt just about the mouths. Initiating your hands into the process and knowing how to use them to your advantage is also an important lesson to learn in being a good kisser. While you are kissing her, run your hands over her hair (very passionate). Or simply push a strand of hair behind her ear. Or you could hold your hands at the small of her back―which gives a very protective feeling. You could also run them very lightly over her arms―up and down―like literally a feather touch. Girls love this kind of stuff. Or you could grab her jawline with both hands while kissing her―there is no clearer signal than this to show that you want her ... bad. Use Variations The French kiss is not the only kiss that you need to learn to be a good kisser. Learn to bring in a variety of kisses and shell be begging for more. Many times, guys just stick to one type of kissing, and that can get really boring. Vary the kissing styles from time to time. Try the lick kiss―run your tongue over her lips and outline them in slow motion. Or the earlobe kiss―run your tongue over your partners ears and gently nibble on them. Placing light kisses and blowing into the ear very gently is also known to heighten ones heartbeats and make the temperature rise (among other things). Similarly, try kissing the neck, eyes, forehead chin, and jaws, as well as experimenting with varied pressure tactics―shell be putty in your hands. Keep Things in Check There are some things that you need to keep in check before you even attempt to kiss someone. Make sure you have fresh breath. Nothing will put off someone like bad breath. Dress well. Dont wear shabby clothes and flaunt a disheveled appearance. Be in control of your hands and tongue. Dont go overboard, or youll scare her away. Be confident and itll show in the way you kiss. Learn to read her signs and see if shes into something that you are trying, or is trying to push you off. Nothing will put off a girl more if someone is forcing himself on her.
Posted on: Thu, 02 Oct 2014 18:24:03 +0000
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