Being in love is not a sufficient foundation on which 2 build a successful marriage. Being in love is an emotional and obsessive experience. However, emotions change and obsessions fade. D purpose 4 dating is 2 get 2 know each other and 2 examine d intellectual, emotional, social, spiritual and physical foundations 4 marriage, only den re u able 2 make a wise decision 2 marry or not 2 marry. Conflicts re not d signs dat u re dating or dat u av married d wrong person, dey simply affirm dat ure human and as such conflicts re bound 2 occur. Some conflicts re major while other conflicts re minor. But large or small, all conflicts av d potential of destroying an evening, a week, a month, or a lifetime. On d other hand, conflicts also av d potential of teaching us how 2 luv, support, understand and encourage each other and this is by far d better road 2 travel. D difference is how u choose 2 process d conflicts. Remember, it is not necessary 2 b perfect in order 2 av a good relationship or marriage, but it is necessary 2 apologize genuinely wen u do things dat hurt each other and it shouldnt border u any longer if d other person forgives u or not as long as u knw u av done d right tin by sincerely apologizing coz d only Healthy response 2 an apology is forgiveness...
Posted on: Wed, 10 Dec 2014 17:36:52 +0000
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