Breaking Free of Family and Friend Attachments. Your awakening requires of you to stand on your own two feet. It requires you to know where you stand first. Thus you experienced isolation because, while this was a necessary part of ‘growing up’ to who you are, it requires the cutting of all the ties of dependency you have on others for what you truly desire. It requires a divorce from all your human contacts in order to reform them in the light of the new truth of you that is unfolding. This results in the grief of separating and a great guilt of the separation because you are torn between the equal and opposing pressures of, honouring your loyalty and promises to care for others on the one hand, and honouring your commitment to be true to yourself on the other. All this is occurring in your mind and emotions and does not necessarily require any action to break any actual working relationship in your life. It is a process of learning to take charge of your life not to change others. In fact it is only by cutting all the dramatic ties that you will be able to reform the relationships you do have based on the truth of you and on your unconditional love. Love without conditions, love that will be there regardless of how the other is behaving, love that truly allows the other their choices and has no judgement of their worth because your own worth and love of yourself does not depend on their approval of your worth. The price of this turn around to freedom is the temporary and periodic feeling of being isolated, alone, and often misunderstood. It is necessary and universal and will come and go as you come to terms with yourself and make your now conscious connection to your new reality, your enhanced state of knowing and feeling.” You are freeing yourself of all old, worn out emotional attachments. From the strength of knowing of the love that you are comes a deepening of your love and compassion for all. Shine On I So Love You ~ Nicky Hamid
Posted on: Mon, 29 Sep 2014 07:58:54 +0000