COUPLES: When you get together as couples/marriage, there are some forms of unaccomplished areas in your life that has not been focused on for a number of various reasons, then the years go by and you want better. When progression begins, conflict might arise between you too because for two long, you have been in a state of denial, complacency, mis-management of priorities. Other times,....if you dont recognize what each other has accomplished on their own yet point out what they need to do (because in your mind you really want to help), it can be a turn off seriously. Dont attack each other, yet when it comes, give that room to really listen because youre discovering a will power in your mate which says give me credit for what I have achieved. They are really trying and dont want to feel stripe of their own assertiveness. Allow the frustration to come and always practice to be a very, very good listeners and then find the right words to express how to really help because we do mean well and in our minds we see what our spouse needs yet you might experience not finding the right words to express it properly. Does this make any sense? Trust me it does. This is how to ensure your honey stays in the moon of your relationship. Good intensions can lead to offensiveness because you never want your mate to feel like youre the one with all the answers. Try suggesting oppose to commanding. Before helping point out the accomplishments long before hand verses what they need to do,....it will be better received. A relationship is a forever growing process. Dont you agree,......lol
Posted on: Sat, 08 Nov 2014 13:28:29 +0000
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