Can I have a private post please... I need to rant! 😞 Basically Im 24 weeks pregnant with my second child. Im living with my daughter and it feels like my boyfriend is just useless and doesnt get it! My daughter has a different dad and the baby Im pregnant with is my boyfriends. He doesnt live with me but I want him too before the baby comes. Money is sooo tight at the moment as he comes to visit me every evening after work and then goes home about 10pm (he never stays) I always cook for him as he never has any money due to him having to pay off his csa and his exes debts. He never asks me to feed him bur i feel i sort of have too... Like I cant really sit down with my daughter and eat a meal without making him one too. I want him to move in but told him if he moves in then our bills and rent come before his exes debt etc... Which he just doesnt get!! We see arguing about it constantly! Im currently on income support and am desperate to get back to work. My person I see every few months said If he doesnt move in they will stop my money. I didnt want to be out of work, I didnt have a choice when I was 12 weeks pregnant. So Im going back to work as soon as Ive had the baby. I cant even afford to have 6 weeks off recovery... Im basically going to have my baby and then job hunt straight away. He said he doesnt want to move in till after the baby is here... How do I make it clear that he needs to help financially and that my bills and rent come before his exes debt if he moves in with me? Also how do I not cook for him and feed him? I literally cant afford too but at the same time I feel bad as he has no money left from his work wages once he has paid off his debts and csa. We are constantly arguing about it and Im so fed up. I generally feel so sorry for him being left in debt, his ex is a horrible cow, but at the same time why should me and our baby have to suffer? If he moves in without changing his priorities with money then it will be me who gets in debt because my home is in my name and so are my bills 😞
Posted on: Wed, 21 Jan 2015 19:23:23 +0000
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