Cant look her in the eyes after youve done something wrong? Men complain that women dont make sense. Women complain that men dont make sense. Even after hanging with so many men like my father, grandfather, godfather, brother and my brother’s friends, I still can’t quite comprehend how a mans mind works However, Ive heard enough women complain to know some things guys repeatedly do wrong. Here are 5 tips on what men must learn in a relationship about women. Remember important dates. Unless her religion requires her not to celebrate these days, remember annual anniversaries, birthdays and company celebrations. If its been a year since shes made partner at her job, she will be impressed that you congratulated her on a job well done. Regardless of her not wanting to get older, a birthday card and a gift wouldnt hurt, even if its not a luxurious gift. Anniversaries are something to celebrate—it takes a lot of work to make a relationship work, so this celebration is for you both sticking it out. If youre spending New Years Eve or Valentines Day without her, shell probably question how much you really like her considering these days are notorious for couples to be together. Its an extremely bad move to spend couples holidays with your friends in a Chicago sports bar downtown watching the game unless she works in the Loop too and you’re waiting to meet her afterwards. Dont turn into a stranger. Physically, people are destined to change, but mentally the changes should be improvement and growth. However, keep in mind the man you were when you first met her. If you were sending her flowers every Tuesday, 30 years later you’d get major kudos for still sending those Tuesday chrysanthemums. If you were calling her and having three-hour conversations, five minute phone calls followed by two days of not calling or not wanting to pick up the phone at all wont work. If you smelled like Diesel colognewhen she first met you, but now you smell like dirt and car oil, head to the nearest Carson Pirie Scott after you take a shower. If you turned into a different person once you got her, she may regard the man she met initially as your representative. That hurts the relationship because if she fell in like or love with the man you introduced yourself to be and you suddenly turn into someone else, you may as well be a stranger to her. Listen to Tamias song Stranger In My House to hear how women regard changes in a relationship. Make time for her. If you spend more time at work or with your friends than you do with her and theres a way you can negotiate the two but you choose not to, you and her will have problems. There are women who want to hog up all of your time and want you to disassociate yourself from your friends, but assuming shes not that territorial and just wants quality time, try your best to give it to her. Buying her gifts isnt going to do it, at least not for the less materialistic woman. She wants to see your face, feel your body, and have a conversation with you. If you can make time to hang out with your friends, why not make time to be with your lady? Say thank you when she does something nice. Both men and women tend to take each other for granted in a relationship, and when someone does something regularly, it can sometimes seem less special. However, think about something she does for you regularly that she doesnt really have to do but does it to help you out. Thank her for it. Manners matter a great deal in any relationship, but sometimes a woman just wants to know shes being acknowledged. Keep your hands to yourself. Although this one may seem obvious, there is no reason whatsoever that a man, especially someone who is noticeably stronger, should put his hands on a woman. There are men who say if a woman acts like she can take him on, then she should be treated equally. Realistically, a man can restrain a woman without hitting her.
Posted on: Tue, 19 Nov 2013 10:43:23 +0000
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