Canvas When contemplating the complexities of love, especially when everyone holds such strong emotions to it, I find it extremely serious to challenge my own emotional experiences with it. By painting my thoughts on the public canvas of life, while it is always dangerous to define with broad strokes, I do to some degree or another consider the evocation of such emotions with regards to effects of love. To believe in Loves higher dimensional development, cognitively one must also accept the internal (discourse)dialogs relentless state to decribe this indescribable feeling, a divinity (super natural power) of paradoxical associatation to ones relationships. While the psychological details vary from one person to another our tendencies are very similar and relatively easy to over look when already confused in our own deep dark obstructions. Otnerwise relationships will rely upon, often use outside forces to reassure, rather than search inside forces that leverag their own true beliefs. The complacent self deception is the easy road of acceptance, manipulating our own perceptive psychologicaly and successfully coercing us into a controled (mis) perceptions succumbing to others(friends) self interest. After successfully starting our stride, we proudly take the softer easier road of comfort that is conveniently laid out and paved by our own path of least resistance. To some degree or another we have all done so, usually with plenty of excuses, rationalizations and justifications for doing what we conveniently hide under the rug. The only thing better than being right when we prove our partner is wrong is cahooting with friends who validate our beliefs. (You scratch my indecisive back and I’ll scratch your assumptive back for confirmation. ) The key to this suttle manipulation is to convince you that it is in your best interest to ignore your better judgment, your inner voice of prudence, and willingly surrender your personal inner wisdom to a false externals, trusted friends while rejecting your genuine inner authority. I struggle to remind myself that the more certain about love I am the greater the likelihood that I’m wrong, if for no other reason than that my absolute certainty most definitely closes my mind to its limitless possibilities. Despite egoic fragrance it is especially downright frightening to venture outside the comfortable confines and safety of our self prescribed sanctuary. While on the surface this may seem painfully obvious, very often we do not practice what we perceive and even less often do we perceive without self deceiving, without externally and internally self inflicted distortions and blurring.This is the art of mind control and false realty creation, to induce you to willingly create an alternatively perceived reality. And for the most part we do this in response to manipulated external stimuli which is often in direct conflict with our true inner knowing. The most powerful weapon in the world used repeatedly against us is ourselves. (Breeds contemp). Simply stop thinking you are in or out of love, especially when you need some one to confirm if you are. Unfortunately very few of us will admit this, thereby keeping us locked in our own vicious reliance of denial and dependence on third party opinions ( friends bias to losing you) psychological self deceptions. While deeply dependent upon and immersed within someone else’s version of your relationship, particularly when supporting the spin within your self induced realitys, you find after a period of time for it to be nearly impossible to return to your prior state of true love. Our ego simply refuses to recognize that we are wrong while mentally consumed with justifying our action which would ultimatly result in a guilt stricken and spiritually broken spirit. The longer the battle for control rages the more consumed the ego becomes in winning the war that only exists within and can never be won unless reconciling the misplaced love with truth. To some degree or another we are all specialists in our own psychological damage control. We are experts in blame, involvement and personal responsibility avoidance at all cost because……well, it’s the other person who’s to blame, they are the ones that messed up~Steven Previch
Posted on: Thu, 27 Mar 2014 14:57:36 +0000
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