Cheaters Cheat... end of story. When your man cheats, it feels like your entire universe crumbles around you. Most women dealing with a cheating husband or boyfriend start thinking of ways to fix the situation. We wonder what weve done to drive him to the arms of another woman. We struggle to think of ways to bring him back. STOP! Cheaters cheat. Thats it. Cheating is not about boredom or dissatisfaction. Cheating is the result of a characterological flaw that allows men or women to rationalize cheating and breaking vows. Affairs are not normal, healthy reactions to uncommon relationship struggles. Rather, they are unhealthy reactions to the trials and tribulations common to most relationships from time to time. Dont torture or embarrass yourself making the same mistakes millions of women make when they know their man is cheating. Save your self- respect, dignity, and time by cutting your losses and freeing yourself for a better relationship with a more functional man. Mistake #1 -- The Investigation When women suspect their man is cheating, the first mistake they make is launching a fact finding mission. Spying, calling around, interrogating their partners, women invest their energy in a senseless hunt to prove what is already obvious: the relationship is seriously broken. You dont need proof that your man is cheating to know that something isnt working between the two of you. Whether hes actually cheating or youre just seriously paranoid, evidence isnt required to know something has to change. Driving yourself mad trying to catch him in the act of cheating wont deliver the peace of mind you are looking for. It will only make you look and feel crazy.............. To be continued
Posted on: Fri, 01 Nov 2013 10:04:48 +0000