Constructive Criticism Muhammad Haq (Haq) | June 25, 2010 11:07 am It’s not a wonder that the term ‘criticism’ is often qualified with the adjective ‘constructive’. Constructive means to build and is the opposite of ‘destructive’. Hence ‘destructive criticism’ is criticism aimed simply at tearing down what others are doing or have done. One can easily fall into what seems to be ‘destructive criticism’ when care isn’t taken to avoid some traits which indicate malicious intentions. This gives rise to a counter-destructive criticism and then a war of words ensues. Through such means, animosity and enmity grows in our hearts for one another. Furthermore, the topic often being disputed is from those matters in which either the Qur’ān and Sunnah3:103). As it is mentioned in the Qur’ān, we know for certain its source is authentic, and the meaning of the command is also clear. This means that it is qaṭ’ī. So how Satan fools all these Muslims when they engage in heated debates of subtle points of fiqh and ʽaqīda is to leave a qaṭ’ī matter over a dhannī matter. This then destroys the whole purpose of engaging in the discussion in the first place, which is to stay within the dictates of the divine will. To avoid such scenarios there is etiquette3 that we should adhere to every time we think of offering constructive criticism. 1. Intentions First, before you even say or write a word, check your intention. Is it really because you differ with the other person on academic grounds, or is there some other ulterior motive? Is it really because you envy the other person’s position, or the fact that they hold more sway then you? Remember the Prophet ﷺ said in the famous ḥadīth “Actions are judged by intentions.”4 So if your foundation is shaky from the outset then even if you adhere to all possible etiquette when criticising, your action would be recorded at best worthless, and more likely as a sin against you. 2. Don’t pretend to be God If you do not receive revelation from the All-Mighty, then please do not act as if you know what is concealed in the hearts of people. If you do, then you risk falling into the major sin of shirk (to associate partners with Allah)! This is not an over exaggerated statement, for time and again, Allāh mentions that it is He Who knows what lies in the hearts of people – that it is His exclusive ability. How many times do you see writers, from scholars, students of knowledge, to the general Muslim, state how they know “this is not what the other person intended” or how they know the other person “wants to follow their vain desires (ittibā’ al-hawā)”?5 Frankly it is shameful to see the level of discourse Muslims frequently engage themselves in. Remember the incident of the beloved companion Usāma ibn Zayd. He was sent on an expedition during which he was pursuing an enemy combatant. Just before being killed the non-Muslim soldier declared, “There is no God but Allāh!” This meant that he was legally a Muslim and thus meant he had forfeited his pact with the enemy, yet Usāma struck him and killed him. After narrating to the Prophet ﷺ what had happened, the Prophet ﷺ rebuked him in harsh words saying “Did you split his heart open (to see)!”6 3. Don’t use offensive names Calling people dogs, hypocrites, ‘modernists’ (usually used derogatively by Muslims), is not the very best of expressions of good conduct. Children are taught this from a young age, yet how many are in constant breach of this protocol? Just because I differ with you on a matter even though you, your Sheikh (scholar of Islam) and his Sheikh right up to some grand-Sheikh differ with me, if the opinion I follow is validated by qualified scholars and has precedence within the scholarly legacy, then the best thing to do is either leave me alone or try to persuade me to your view (this itself is an art, not suitable for the lay). If you fail, then the best policy is to keep your mouth sealed. Remember Allāh says “And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [ones] faith. And whoever does not repent – then it is those who are the wrongdoers.” (49:11). 4. Tafsīq (Accusation of sin), Tabdīʽ (Accusation of innovation) & Takfīr (Accusation of blasphemy) If the matter is one in which scholars have differed in, then you have no right to call someone a fāsiq (sinner), or worse a mubtadiʽ (innovator), or even worse a kāfir (infidel). Yes, it seems as though some people get an amount of pleasure out of calling their fellow brothers such names, but this simply exposes the sick hearts they conceal. Let me give you some examples7 to drive the point home. Many scholars, including the European Council for Fatwa and Research, have allowed interest-bearing mortgages, with stringent conditions. Do not condemn someone to hell if they follow this opinion. It is valid and has its precedence amongst the ʽulamā (scholars). If brother Yusuf or sister Zeinab likes listening to music (following all the conditions), then even if you think they are heading straight for the fire, the fact that there was and is a valid difference of opinion means you sadly have to keep your mouth sealed.8 And why should you find this difficult? If you do, then maybe you are simply someone who is controlling. I remember once Sheikh Hamza Yusuf said “How many of you would become like Saddam if you were given the same power?” It is the sheer blessing of Allāh that few people have such power. If someone celebrates birthdays, please do not call him or her an innovator, because if you do, you’re calling all the scholars including the likes of Sheikh Abdullah bin Bayya an innovator too. If you have no qualms about doing that then I suggest you quickly go and see a sheikh of tazkiya because you definitely have a sick heart. Lastly, if I vote in a non-Muslim country, it doesn’t mean that I have abandoned my faith. I am still called Muhammad, I still believe in Allāh and his messenger. I just chose a course of action in which the majority of the scholars have said is allowed, and only a minority have said no. 5. Substance Lastly, in offering criticism, do have some substance yourself. Make sure you make sense, and do your homework. Remember the maxim “there is no jarḥ (criticism) except with tafṣīl (detailed explanations).” May Allāh keep us all on the straight path. Āmīn. suhaibwebb/personaldvlpt/character/constructive-criticism/
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