Control is rooted in fear... We try to control things because we are scared of thinking what would happen if we didnt.. Control is the result of being attached to a specific outcome, an outcome that were sure is best for us, as if we know whats best. The energy of surrender accomplishes much more than the energy of control. When we surrender, we are calm and peaceful. Once you clear your mind, your vision extends around you and then youre able to see the bigger picture. Dont be afraid of what will happen if you let go of control. Surrendering can be difficult because you feel like you are giving up but letting go of things is a form of freedom, helping you learn that you dont always have to be in control for things to work out for you. Being controlling is unhealthy in relationships and can ruin friendships.. The ego plays a role in being controlling or thinking that youre in control. Being right or acting like youre always right is overrated and nobody is interested in a know-it-all. Knowing that you know nothing is the beginning of true wisdom. Nobody is totally in control of their lives because there is no such thing as being perfect, but only just being the best you can possibly be. The feeling of control gives us the thought that we have power over others when in reality its just an illusion. When we rely on control to make us feel good, it never works out and will only end up making us feel disappointed and expecting more from others.. Once you start to forget about the need for control, then you will start to live life with an open mind, be able to know when its time for change and youll finally be able to live in peace. https://youtube/watch?v=3Qptyt0-S9U&index=62&list=PLBt3OR94jWPzxVV83ZUVgXcoJsbG4HkVA
Posted on: Sun, 05 Oct 2014 04:55:57 +0000
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