DATING, COURTSHIP AND ENGAGEMENT IN ISLAM FINAl PART All Praise is due to Allah, the Most High, the Most Merciful. ☑Dear and Beloved Sister and Brother in Islam, engagement or a commitment between a man and a woman to marry has absolutely no legal basis or role in Shariah; unless and until the actual ‘Nikaah’ is performed where in the presence of two witnesses and the guardian of the bride, the groom proposes to marry the woman for a determined amount of ‘Mahr’, and the bride accepts his proposal.Only after the ‘Nikaah’ contract is completed, will the man and the woman be husband and wife, and permitted to conjugate with each other. ☑The pride price is just a commodity at the time of proposal and it will only be a Mahr when the union is finally Consummate with the required people. So there shouldnt be any intimate relationship between both Partners. ☑Dear sister who are in engagement for long, who are in promise with a guy and want to keep that promise bcos Allah said you should fulfill promise.This promise only draw you closer to sin and this is not the promise we are talking about. Why dont you call that guy to proceed with the marriage contract? he should at least contact your wali and do the shar’ia marriage contract, and if the consummation is delayed there is nothing wrong with that. But if it remains as a promise to get married, and correspondence continues between you on that basis, this – according to the rulings of sharee’ah and the experience of real life – is a wrong path that opens the door to sin and corruption. You can be certain that you will never find happiness except by obeying Allaah and adhering to the limits set by his sharee’ah. The permissible ways are sufficient and there is no need for haraam means, but we make it hard for ourselves and the shaytaan takes advantage of that. ☑My dear Sisters, your delay in getting married is very harmful for you. You are getting older and this young man’s circumstances are not improving or he is keeping the promise long; you are not marrying him and you are not marrying anyone else. Beware of delaying, for that will only cause harm. You should realize that one of these men who have proposed marriage may be more religiously committed and righteous than that young man who kept his promise for long, and there may be far greater love with him than there is between you and that young man who propose to you and still want to postponed it for long time. ☑My dear Brothers and Sisters in Islam; there is no better enjoyment than obeying the command of Allah. The prophet said if you are ready to marry then marry but if you are not then fast bcos fasting would keep your gaze from looking at forbidden things. Stay away from haram relationship be it dating, courtship or anything and when you are ready to marry seek the guidance of the Most High who did encouraged you to keep chaste. ☑I hope and pray that the small effort I have have done by writting this note on dating would not come to vain in sha Allah. I hope it has been quite a fruitfull lesson weve had and hope we work by it. Your (Ameen) is nothing if you dont change to good bcos Allah helps those who help themselves. If you obey what Allah said then goodness is yours but if you disobey then your case is with Allah. May Allah protect us from satanic influence and guide us on the straight path.Ameen. {DONT FORGET TO SHARE PLEASE📞}
Posted on: Sun, 09 Nov 2014 16:19:34 +0000
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