DATING TIPS: Observe relationships of friends, co-workers and relatives. Have you ever noticed that people become addicted to romantic partners that mistreat them? Why is that? The mistreatment is not the attraction. Its the independent behavior of the less needy partner that causes a powerful craving in the more dependent partner. Emotional starvation makes one minute of intimacy more valuable than gold. You can even induce an obsession in a partner by becoming unpredictable and less available in how you dispense affection. Any indication of independence lights up neuronal circuitry in areas of the brain that instinctively ignite animal desire and hyper-focused attraction. Where you should never intentionally mistreat anyone for any reason, its wise to learn from the phenomenon of independence as the catalyst of natural attraction. Here are some practical examples of how you can use this information: The guy I was dating stopped calling me two weeks ago. Solution: NEVER EVER...EVER express one word of dependence or sadness. Instead, get busy with friends and post pictures of you and other hot guys having a good time. One needy expression or too much contact with the straying date and the deal is dead. Be positive and independent. Be attractive. Do you want to be held hostage by a suicidal crybaby or do you want what everyone else wants? Success sells. ACT INDEPENDENT UNTIL YOU BECOME INDEPENDENT... Then, keep doing it. My girlfriend says she needs more space. Solution: Whatever you do, DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES INITIATE CONTACT WITH HER! And when she attempts to contact you, dont answer until she makes a second attempt. Then, break away from the conversation first and quickly. Be less predictable and less available. In other words, be more independent. Dont lose your relationship because you have the self-discipline of a six year-old. Put as much thought into your relationship and managing it as you do school, work and finances. Why do we think a relationship never needs a tune-up? Be attractive.
Posted on: Sun, 16 Nov 2014 15:38:24 +0000