DaBull Vee Experience does not always teach us wisdom, it sometimes just cements our fears. As teenagers we approach relationships from a fantasy dynamic. It is all new and exciting, we just want to experience it all and are naturally naive to what we are getting into. As the fantasy becomes a reality, we learn to be a bit more careful with our hearts and try to not let our mind have more say in who we choose than our bodies. Young men still believe in what they are seeing. If it looks good it must be good. As they get older they become more discerning and can recognise characters to avoid, however that can be still caught off guard by some special people. Women of the type you have never seen before, no crime though as we are here to learn. Women are more likely to create a list of attributes of characteristics and positions they would like their new partners to have. These lists are detailed and cover things from the partners height, hair, job, driving status, age range. etc. This list forms the magnetic template frequency sent into the universe to attract the majority of the list requirements. This is serious business to women, men not so much. When the man arrives she is subconsciously checking her list to see if she got the item she ordered. Men are usually clueless about this process. The crazy thing is the list energy request thing works, they may have modify it a few times as they get what they asked for but on the day of making the request they forgot some important attributes to be removed or added. My fear with all of this, is whether people are in love with the idea of the person created by the list. Does the vulnerability come from choosing someone who does not meet the specifications on the list. Both men and women are afraid of getting hurt again. I not sure if lists protect or restrict or are the way forward. I am sure no relationship happens by accident and the more I understand myself, the more my past makes sense. I will always love the painter more than the painting, as I realised the more you love the painter the better the painting looks. ~Edison Agbandje~
Posted on: Sun, 20 Jul 2014 21:57:41 +0000
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