Dear Ladies, Firstly,if u are still struggling to find a husband at an old age cus u are looking for a perfect man, something is certainly wrong with u. Now ur propaganda magazine tells u that All men are liars,cheats and useless but lets be Honest here, which is more likely? Is it that there is something wrong with about 40million Nigerian men, OR there is something wrong with one Nigerian Woman..., U? The Truth is this when a product is not doing well, the sales team dont blame the customers or deir marketin strategy, they blame d product So ladies, have u been marketing urselves? Whats ur Marketing strategy? Do u think u will be picked out of d shelf and placed in d basket of matrimony if u are always hanging out with that coving of people u call friends? Always making urself d rugged bad gurl? D lady who beliv she can intimidate any man who approaches her. Hmmmm drinking urself to sturpor every friday and saturday night does not exactly make u look like a marriage material. Neither will any product (U) do well in the market if d sales team (U) reeks of desperation. Nagging,whining only tells a man that he is watching a preview of what life will be like if he walks down d aisle with you. If ur precious Exs all complained about ur Nags,get a gag! U want a man?...invest in a good wardrobe,and dress well. When a man comes to you,smile and be polite,even if he does not fit ur mental image of ur kind of man. Show forth d virtue in u At 18, a gurl already has an image of her perfect man,which includes height, body type and wealth. As time goes on, a lady will add more and more qualities on her list such that by d time she is dating for marriage, not a single man alive can meet her exact standards. Ladies,stop coming to relationship with a chip on ur shoulder. If u believe All men are Bad,,,men are Dogs,then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy. No man is perfect,if u want to find a perfect man, you will have to do aGenesis chapter 1 and make him out of clay, and breath life to him. And even then, chances are,he may still disappoint. (cos even God was disappointed too, after creating both u and man) You say u cant marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic or carpenter...., Now if a carpenter was good enough to marry Mary mother of the lord,why isnt one good enough for you? Dont focuse on where a man is now,but look and see where He has the potentials to be. Dat is what defines a man. Ladies lay more interest on d present height of a man, how much money he can spend at dat point in time without caring about dat man who has d potential to count more in d foreseeable future. Dont focus on some petty physical features that are not up to ur Mexican soap- opera (Salvado Silenzer) standards. Hmmmmm I tink u should hav dis tot about ur dream man, will he be faithful? Will he be a good father to ur kids and agoodhusband to u? Will he love,cherish and respect u? Whats d point of been beaten to a pulp every nyt by some rich, good looking and womanizing jerks? Do u want a future where u will sit in a traffic in ur BMW X6,GUCCI sunglasses covering ur eyes wit tears and u look out of d window and see a happy couple in a Honda civic holding hands, laughin and giggling like newly wedded couple even after 12 years of marriage. Africa and Nigeria is full of good men, you are just so caught up day dreaming about ur fantasy man that they are passing unnoticed b4 ur very eyes. Dont be cynical, fussy and uptight. Improve ur product,and how its marketed and the demand for it will grow through d roof. Remember a man and woman is measured by d content of their character. And remember u are competing in a Modern African market. Ur perfect man is out there. He may not look like what u want or expect, but if u give him a chance,the two of u will find joy, companionship and completion like u ve never thought possible. Why think of geting pregnant for a man who doesnt love u in other to force d marriage bcus he has some change in his pocket. (D rich also cry)
Posted on: Wed, 12 Mar 2014 07:30:43 +0000
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