Dear Zane About 4 years ago I meet a man that had 2 jobs and a car yet he stayed with his mother. After dating for 2 months he ended up moving in with my children and I. We have been living together ever since. After about 6 months into living with each other he lost both hos jobs and his car. I have been supporting him since. 2 years into the relationship I finally started taking him around my friends and family. My mother does not like him at all and some of my friends dont either being that they feel like I should not be supporting him. He still has no job and no car. One of my friends got really close with him and I caught him and her together at 3 am both denied that there was anything going on. Ever since I have had some serious trust issues with him that has effected our relationship. We recently moved to another town thinking that maybe we need a change. We both ended up getting on our feet and everything has been going smooth up until a few weeks ago. Hes working now but he never wants to tell me his hours or even if he has to work. I dont get to see his checks and he is always saying he has to do something with his money in which leaves me with paying for most of the bills. When I ask him questions he gets mad and says that I always in his business. What should I make out of this and am I tripping thinking that this man is in this relationship like I am? MY RESPONSE: Do you simply need someone to tell you that you being taken for a fool? Okay, I will say it. What you should make out of it is that you need to stop being so hard up for a man that you will accept all of this from him. Four years of this and you still have not had enough? Before you know it, year ten will be upon you and things will be the same or worse. You should never have allowed a man to move in with you and your children in two months. Then they are seeing you support this man and I hope that he is not a pedophile. You really have no clue whether he is one or not. So he now has a job but still has you paying all of the bills. That is because you allowed him to become complacent. He went from his mother to you and if you get rid of him, he will either go back to his mother or move in with one of the women he is surely cheating on you with. Trust me, he is looking for his next big break because he senses that you are on the fence about him. He will continue to say just enough to keep you baited until he catches the big kahuna.
Posted on: Wed, 09 Apr 2014 13:40:41 +0000
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