Dear Zane, Hi, please keep me private. I really need advice I am 33 years old,im married but my husband left my children and I over the summer just 4 months after I lost both my parents. he says because hes changed his life and I should have too the problem is he has constantly cheated and allowed the women and his family continue to disrespect me so I never saw him the same and eventually I cheated too. After he left I got into a relationship with a man I was dealing with in my life. He has fought me and has a very aggressive personality but he has loved me and been more loyal to me than any man if it wasnt for him I dont know where I would be( I have no other family) My children are afraid of him and it shows they are not the same. I really want to move and not tell him where I am but I would feel as though in used the only man who cares about me. Also im really trying to be closer to God and he is s hindrance to me. What should I do? MY RESPONSE: All I needed to read is: My children are afraid of him and it shows they are not the same. You need to always put your childrens welfare first. I have seen and currently know women who have placed men above their children and it is never beneficial in the end. I hope you do the right thing. Love and loyalty are generally not followed up by a man being aggressive and flat-out fighting you. He is hindering your ability to get closer to God because God is a creator of peace, not confusion.
Posted on: Sun, 04 May 2014 04:22:47 +0000