Dear Zane, Please keep me anonymous. I am a 36 year old mother of two. My son is 15 and my daughter is 5. They have different fathers with whom I was with for a long time. After they cheat I just seem to move on with my life and let go. The issue is with my daughters dad. He sends me messages saying that he wants to get back together, get married and work things out. I tell him all the time that I dont trust him and dont want to be with him. He has had 2 different women come to my house looking for him. One of them only wants to fight. My tires on my truck keep getting slashed ( 4 times in the last month, 7 different tires) there is nothing that the police can do because I am sleep when it happens and I dont see the person doing it. He lies and says that he is not with these women but one of them texted me from his phone in the middle of the night a few nights ago. One more thing, he says I only call him when I need something. Which is somewhat true. I call him when our daughter needs something. He is a street guy and goes months without seeing her. Well Im starting to think that it is him slashing the tires just so that I will have a reason to call. Am I wrong? I just dont trust anyone right now. I dont get it. I work for the government, just got the job a few months ago. I have always worked and provided for mine. Both of those women are on section 8 and welfare, dont have to work and get to hang out all day. Her dad does his thing. Its just not fair. Sincerely, A Very Stressed Out Mom #readytopackupandmove......far MY RESPONSE: See if you can transfer your job. If the other father lives elsewhere, I would not give it a second thought. I would start looking into that now so you can move once school lets out in the summer. Whether it is him or one of his thots is not the problem. It is just a crazy situation and since he is not consistent with visiting, do you. Also, you can get you a cheap camera that is motion-sensitive, put it inside your car and it will take snapshots of whomever comes near your car so you can look at it the next day after some mess. I forgot what they are called but hunters will leave them out in the woods to track the patterns of deer and other animals to see when it is the best time and the best place to get to them. They have night vision so the people will not even know they are being photographed or filmed on a memory card. Good luck.
Posted on: Sun, 04 Jan 2015 15:46:07 +0000
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