Dear men, If I dont at least kind of know you....DO NOT message me on Facebook. 1. You come off as desperate when you approach females this way because it signifies you do not care what someone is actually like, you will settle for their image. 2. We all know what you are trying to do, no one messages someone just to establish a platonic relationship. 3. Stop creeping around for a potential fling or girlfriend. Clearly you need to learn how to value yourself and see your worth. If you had any regard for yourself you would realize your incredible thirst is going to get you hurt because NEWSFLASH the good women of the world will not be responsive to those types of efforts. 4. I feel guilty when I do not respond to you because I do not like to be a mean person. I do not aim to hurt anyones feelings, but I genuinely DO NOT support what you are doing and messaging you back is provoking you continue acting in this way. Furthermore, I do not message you back because you are actively looking for something and I am not. (Because I know by actively looking you are setting yourself up for failure by developing expectations and by settling for what may not be what is best for you). 5. Try a new approach....try to NOT want a relationship or attention.... then when you can no longer fight it off you know that the person is worth your effort and the risk of being hurt. If you genuinely feel like you would be making a mistake by remaining single that is the ONLY time you should date. Dating is not try them all pick one you like, it is avoid them all and only fight for the ones that you are genuinely afraid to lose. If more people though like this, less people would be hurting and thirsty. The goal in life is not to always be in a relationship or fling or whatever. The goal is to be the best you can be....others only compliment you...they do not make you.
Posted on: Tue, 26 Nov 2013 07:17:38 +0000
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