Dear sister, Am sorry to hear that your heart has been broken again, but I want to believe this incessant heart break is avoidable if you can apply the wisdom of a car dealer. You see a lot of people walk into a car show room everyday, I categorise them into three, the faith walker, the bargainer and the buyers! The faith walkers are taking steps of faith by pricing the car, you see them claiming it, speaking in tongues and when they have had their feel of the vechicle they will say we will be back. The bargainers are looking for the cheapest price available and after having their feel they leave with i thought its cheaper here. The buyers just price the car , test drive it, pay and leave. Most often, it is difficult to tell any of these three categories of people by just their appearance! The man carrying a KJV bible with clerical shirt may be the buyer! The chief with pot belly may be a bargainer! While the guy wearing an armless shirt with 3 quarter short may be the faith walker. What the dealer does is to welcome every of these people, give them restricted access to their selected car. He is not carried away by a man saying I love this car he just look on, he is only swept off his feet when the customer start asking for a secured place to count the money for the car. It is at this level that he gives unrestricted access! As for the other two he wont frown at them either! after all they kept him busy and it is part of the business, he will just stay friendly, answer their questions and wish them well. I will advise you to follow my principle of the car dealer, until he proposes he is not yet your fiancee! He may be keeping appearances but let him speak up, dont assume for him, just stay friendly and sensitive. I hope you remember, Hebrews 10:37 which says For in a very short time, The one who is coming will come and will not be delayed. Wait on God, do your part and he will satisfy you with the best. Your friend and mentor Dezmond-Elliz
Posted on: Tue, 13 Jan 2015 09:31:23 +0000