Differences Between Grown Boys And Grown Men Calls when he says he will A real man understands that you have a life and schedule of your own, and that you are not just some toy he can pick up when the mood strikes him. He understands that you deserve the respect of having him make plans, and following through with those plans. So, when he says he’s going to call you at a certain time, he does. Because he understands that if he calls 30 minutes late, you could have moved on with your day. As you should have! Accepts fault A real man does not get defensive and immediately shut down when you get upset with him. A real man lets you speak your piece and seriously considers your words, analyzing himself and his actions and being open to the idea that you might be right—he might have messed up. Regardless of if he did or didn’t, his priority is to make you happy again, or to have you trust in him again, not to make things worse by getting defensive or dismissing your concerns. A real man always has the good of the relationship in mind, not just his own ego or pride. A real man can commit A man who sleeps with multiple women every week isn’t a real man…he is insecure. If he doesn’t get a new girl to fall for him regularly, he loses confidence in himself. He uses females to fill a void, and to avoid facing the reality that he is not comfortable in his own skin—something he’d have to be to let a woman really get to know him. A real man can commit. He doesn’t use women to make himself feel a certain way—he simply selects one woman who he thinks is so fabulous that he wants to make her feel a certain way (i.e. hot, unique, loved and all that good stuff.) In other words, a real man wants to give to, not take from, a woman. A real man communicates A real man doesn’t put his hand up, turn away or hang up the phone when there’s an issue. A real man doesn’t think it’s too feminine or weak to talk about his feelings and work things out with words. A real man has a level head, and doesn’t get overwhelmed (as little boys do) at the concept of putting thoughts into words. You know, that thing you learned in kindergarten…He doesn’t shut down when the conversation is not one he’s ready to discuss, and hopefully he won’t just agree with you for the sake of getting you to hush up. Grown Men, speak....
Posted on: Sat, 20 Dec 2014 19:37:54 +0000
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