Disgusting Defined: My war buddy committed suicide over a week ago in front of his wife. Imagine the pain that a person has to go through and their own personal torment they have to endure.. wondering if there was more they can do to help the situation. Imagine being a widow left with a 3 year old daughter that doesnt understand why daddy isnt coming home. Imagine the strength you need to push pass the pain and the personality you need to adopt to be strong and appear happy so that your 3 year old is not robbed of their happiness. Imagine dealing with the Stigma and the fallout of PTSD in your own home. The continuous struggle that no one sees because to many people refuse to believe. Imagine loving someone who should be extremely happy but is always sad and cant find a reason for why they feel the way they do. Imagine watching the love of your life deteriorate before you.. without receiving any help. Imagine the fights because of the lack of communication. Imagine watching the moment your loved one was finally at peace which was a split second before shooting himself in the head. Imagine your thoughts. Now imagine people who was never in your families life, never stopped by to check on you, never dropped a line to say hi... accuse you of being responsible for your loved ones sucide. Imagine getting death threats from people who are spreading vicious rumours and are trying to destroy your credibility. Imagine how strong you still have to be for your 3 year old daughter.. so she doesnt miss out on everything that she has already lost. True story folks... its happening right now. And if you are on my friends list and spreading lies and rumors instead of offering assistance.. you should be ashamed of yourself. Not a little ashamed.. very ashamed!! We love to put people in a box. Its one of the reasons my war buddy is dead right now... therapist treat PTSD with the one size fits all methods... GREAT JOB Therapist!! You are the reason 8000 warriors killed themselves last year and why 22 warriors kill themselves everyday. The same goes for how a person grieves.. is their an SOP for how a person is suppose to act.. Because they dont fit into your box they are not worthy. Wow!! Where would your assistance come in if you were responsible for driving a widow crazy. What are you willing to do for her family? Are you willing to carry the torch for her daughter and make sure she knows how much daddy and mommy love her? Or are you just talking smack trying to destroy the family further.. so you can walk away feeling good about yourself.. who loses?? That 3 year old girl you dont give a Damn about. Thats who loses! If you engaged in any vicious talk about this situation.. you are truly disgusting! !
Posted on: Thu, 24 Jul 2014 10:05:26 +0000
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