Divorce Cases On Rise Divorce cases in metro cities is rising. However, even urban cities are facing such issues. The modern thinking and lifestyle has played a huge role in this. Lets have a look on the marriage in the old times. Our ancestors said, marriage is not only for this birth, but it last for 7 births. i.e. "SAAT JANAMO KA SAATH". Well, none of this concept seems to happen. Nowadays the youth find it too difficult to even go on with marriage for a single birth. Then, what are the factors that has led to the divorce cases rising? Lets have a look. The social acceptance of the divorced daughter in the urban areas is one of the factor contributing to the rise of divorce cases. Parents now believe that their daughter has got a better life without her husband. Also, living in metro cities has got a very less involvement of the relatives and friends who would question them on their decisions. There is less social life and less interaction which avoids the glare and gossiping of relatives and friends. The concept of Marriage from older times has changed to a greater extent in the modern society. Earlier, to survive a relationship, people invested proper amount of attention, time, care, love and understanding for the relation to work out. But the modern society doesnt seem to work hard for the survival of marriage. Emotions, morals and values have been replaced by practicality and this has also contributed in the divorce rates to rise. Another factor that leads to this problem is , men are still not comfortable with their female partner to be highly professional one or who belongs to a good position and works in a way too professional career. The women must not earn more than men. This creates a kind of mental instability and is unacceptable to men since it will lead to the judgmental relatives and friends taunting men that their woman earns more than her husband. Problems with attitude can arise because most men prefer being the bread-winners. Women need to respect their husbands if they earn less than them and men need to put aside their egos for this problem to be solved. The stressful and pressuring workload of the working men and women in which they work for 6 days in a week, work late, and the competition to survive among the best of the persons creates a negligence to personal lives of both men and women. And many a times, if both of them work, the lack of communication and less time spent with each other leads to the extra marital affairs with the office colleagues. Thus, if I sit to discuss on this issue, the list would be never ending. So I conclude with my opinion that everyone should understand the meaning of the relationship called as "MARRIAGE" and respect it. A sense of responsibility and understanding should be developed towards your partner so as to make their marriage successful and go on peacefully with it. Thank you. Shweta
Posted on: Tue, 10 Sep 2013 12:42:32 +0000
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