Do you always abide by the rule of love? Do you always count what your partner want as important and do it to satisfy them? Or you see it as nothing special and wave it off. Do you know that if a drop of kerosene dropped into a large pot of soup it can spoil the whole taste? There are some things we dont count as important or, take note of in a relationship that often cause relationship problem. This guy came to meet me in the shop early this morning. He is a neighbour and a brother. I asked him what the problem was. And he told me that it seems as if his girlfriend is losing interest in their relationship. I asked why?. He said she is no more romantic as before. Her call has reduced and so also was her text messages. I assured him that I will see the lady and talk to her. When he left, I called the lady to come and see me in my shop. When the lady came, I was so suprised as to what she told me make her loss interest in the relationship. The guy failed in his duty to always bade her goodnight every night. She said she cherished this so much and that, she is tired of complaining to him all the time. She further told me that, that will make the guy be in her mind throughout the night and first thing in the morning. The guy count it as NOTHING BUT, the lady counted it as SOMETHING. Who knows, she might have other reasons which she did not want to disclose about this Good night thing. I then remembered that I made such a complaint to my man sometimes ago. Instead of him taking to it, he gave me a useless excuse. Guess what? I since then reduced my expectation about him because, I believe that I am not as important in his life as I thought. Lets put more effort to satisfying our partners if we know that we still need the relationship.
Posted on: Tue, 03 Jun 2014 15:38:04 +0000
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