Do you ever take a look at your husband and start to wonder “what on earth is he thinking?” Well, You are not the only one. Since the very first day, we met our husband (the first date) we have been struggling to know the reason while our husbands behave the way they do some times. Well, i think i have finally known the truth to that. Its very simple, men do have their own language which only them understands and they are not willing or even have the interest in teaching us how to speak it. So as a woman and a wife we have to figure this things out on our own. Sometimes looking at men and how they do, it seems that are from another planet (mars). This simply means that if we really wants to make our marriage work we have to learn how to communicate so pretty darn well, and in order to do that we have to and need to learn how to speak the language on this other planet (the language of men)–even when it does not make sense to us.. Taking our time to know who our husbands are and what they like and the meaning of their action, we will improve the quality of our relationships (marriage). After all, nothing is frustrating like trying to spend your lifetime with someone who you don’t know or get (or someone who doesn’t get you). Below is the list of 9 thing every woman must know about their husband, which i think is a starting point to communicating with your husband and building a strong marriage. They are: He says I love you without actually saying it: You should try and focus on his actions not words because men can say more than their words ever will. Words are words but actions are action. His lack of interest in talking is not personal: If your man does not feel like speaking and chatting, well is not about you. Most men do process things internally and don’t see need of talking it out always. He needs to feel needed: So many women are educated, have a job, make money, successful and independent that we always forget how to make our men feel needed. Just know that to make your marriage last long and strong you have to drop your pride and ego and make our husband feel good. Let him take care of the kids in his own way: Dad’s got this, Stop stressing yourself and allow him do things with the kid..his own way. I know some men don’t even know how to carry the new born baby but just feel free and allow him carry the baby the way he wants..as he will always be proud of the baby. He wants you to be happy, because that makes him happy: Men are pretty simple they so much believe in happy wife happy life. A man that loves you always love the peace of mind that comes with your happiness. When you see he is trying to make you happy. always appreciate him and go happy with him. He rarely needs you to elaborate: Try always to Keep things concise and clear if you want him to hear what you are saying. The more detail you add and elongate issues, the more he tunes you out. He does care about fashion… kind of: He may not know brand names, fashion but he will always love it when you are put together..it matters so much to him as he wants to be proud of you. He needs Sometimes to himself and the boys: How do you feel when discussing with girls, your husband need time too to discuss with boys, not just run into what they are saying, Allow him to handle everything. If you ask him, He will help: Don’t try to manage or do everything on your own. Yes, it can be frustrating at times if your man don’t help unless you ask, but honesty it’s not even on your husband radar at times. Its very simple, Just tell him, what you need, its very easy and effective than waiting for him to figure out…he is no computer
Posted on: Wed, 06 Nov 2013 14:41:41 +0000
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