Don’t assume that relationship define it. - Pst Bisi Adewale This is very common among youths. They assume about relationship most of the time, thereby setting up themselves for great disappointment. The danger is, everybody will assume you are engaged while you are hoping the brother is taking his time and will propose soonest. WHAT TO DO * As a lady, define all your relationships. If a brother is becoming too close without disclosing his intention, ask him what he wants from you. * Don’t be too close to any brother to the point that people will start making insinuations. * Never allow a brother propose with proverbs or idioms to you. Pretend as if you don’t know what he is saying until he comes straight. For example, if he says, “let me be the umbrella on your head”, tell him, “I am not in the sun and I do not need an umbrella”. * Avoid cooking for brothers unnecessarily. Most brothers love food and will do anything to keep the source of their good food, even if it means pretending they are in love. * Do not help a brother by proposing to him. Any brother that is not bold enough to propose to you is not old enough to be your husband. - Brothers should be bold to propose simply, concisely and directly without proverbs or idioms. * Get a direct “yes” or “no” from a lady; do not assume because these are the reasons for late marriages….. ( copied)
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