EMAIL FROM MEMBER RE: INDEPENDANT LIVING: Im 38 years old & Im a single Dad of 3 who I raise full time on my own, ages 16,15 & 9. Their Mother has not shown an interest in the kids since she walked out 7 years ago. Ive met a great woman who Ive been with for 3 years. Shes got 2 grown up kids & works away during the week but stays at the weekend when shes back in town. Shes talking about changing her job, moving in & getting married, which for some reason fills me with dread :( Ive lived with 3 women that Ive had a relationship with & each time Ive felt suffocated & crave my independence. Small things they do start to grate on me & I become a miserable moody git! I feel like there is something wrong with me for wanting to live on my own!! I dont want to hurt her because shes a great woman who loves me & the kids dearly, Ive spoken to her about this & she seems to understand but I cant see someone putting up with that forever!! Im not sure if this means that Ive just not met the right person or this is just the way I am but it worries me that I will always feel like this & will end up being some miserable lonely recluse sitting in my rocking chair on my tod because I want to be in a relationship, but dont want to live with them, I like being a miserable git some days on my own!! lol Is anyone else like this or is there something wrong with me??
Posted on: Tue, 13 Jan 2015 10:13:34 +0000
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