Earlier today I posted on some posts that I have read recently that I thought were quite disturbing. The other day a lady posted that she suspected that one of her friends was cheating with her husband and because of that, she decided that she was going to go out and cheat on him with his friend. Now even though there may be some that think that this is normal behavior maybe I am getting too old but I find this behavior not within the norm and as I said before quite disturbing! I am not an angel by no means and I have made more mistakes than i can count on the fingers of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir but i cant understand why if you are not happy in your relationship or marriage, why would you want to stay and be miserable or make your spouse miserable as well? If there is kids involved I understand but if youre miserable how do you think the kids feel? I really feel that you should be up front and honest with people and share your true feelings and not try to see who can outdo the other whether its a relationship or friendship, if you really and truly want to be with that person you have to work together to make it happen and if ones willing and one is not, you pretty much are doomed to fail and if you have kids all youre going to do is make them miserable and is that really fair to them? I am not trying to preach but I sometimes think that most people are quick to blame other people when maybe they should look inside themselves and say what could i have done to make things better and did i do enough to make our relationship work?Most people are quick to blame others but they fail to see themselves as others may see them! Trust me its not a gender issue remember it takes two to tango but if you really and truly love someone, you will find a way to make your relationship successful. Just saying dont do something to spite another because whether its karma or revenge as that saying goes: what goes around comes around and also dont set your expectations so high that the goals are unattainable. Get to know the person as a person and you may find that an individual that may not have made a good impression at first may turn out to be the best friend or companion that youve ever had or known. Try not to be judgmental because in the end that will be Gods role!
Posted on: Fri, 01 Aug 2014 00:53:57 +0000
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