Even though we love our children equally there will be one that you connect with differently based on what your child has went through whether its the oldest or the youngest. This doesnt mean you love the other less. My eldest is the one who I have that need to not fail her. When I moved to America in 05 I brought her with me. We both left behind families and friends, she has no cousins or grandma, godparents, or aunties to come get her, hang out with her, she has no one to buy her clothes and show up to the house with it. All she has is me! My younger 2 has a dad who loves them dearly would do anything for them, they have cousins grandmas, they travel to NC to see their family but all my eldest has is me. So I make it happen for her, wether its Jordans on her feet, an iPhone 5s in her hands, her hair did, not that Im investing in material things but shes an awesome kid all As, no problem out of her. She knows when Im sad, she knows when Ive been crying no matter how much I try hide it from her, she knows when Im frustrated or dissapointed. I would do anything for her if she wants to participate in sports, I make it happen, orchestra I make it happen. I just cant leave her to figure it out, because she has no one but me, Im all she has ever known. I connect with her different from my other babies yet I love them all equally.
Posted on: Sun, 17 Aug 2014 01:45:25 +0000
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