Evening Reminder: Sunday. Dangers at our homes. Lets continue from afternoon reminder. Segregating men and women in family visits. Man is naturally gregarious and sociable; he needs friends and friendships entail visiting one another. When there are visits between families, we should block the path of evil by not mixing. One of the indications that mixing is haraam is the sayings of Allah And when you ask his wives for anything you want, ask them from behind a screen, that is purer for your hearts and for their hearts [al-Ahzaab 33:53]. If we were to look for the evil results of mixing during family visits, we would find many objectionable things, such as: 1. In most cases the hijab of women in these mixed gatherings is nonexistent or is not proper, so a woman may display her beauty before someone in front of whom it is not permissible for her to uncover herself. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): And tell the believing women not to reveal their adornment [al-Noor 24:31]. It may happen that a woman adorns herself for strangers in a mixed gathering in a way that she never does for her husband. This is bcs most often women dress beautifully when going out than how they dress at in front of their husbands and thats one source of evil attraction to men outside or non relative families been visited. Sheitan then uses all his intelligence to aid other men to start looking and fancying our wifes and we witness in so many instances when a man will be killed just to take his wife astaqfurAllah. We ask Allah to protect us from this evil influences due to our own ignorance. Amin.
Posted on: Mon, 10 Mar 2014 19:16:46 +0000
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