Every problems we witness in marriages today are as a result of the important things,we thought or feel that it does not matter or that we fail to learn as a child, as a youth. When a man does not know how to take care of a woman,when a woman does not know how to take care of a man,then he/she didnt value taking care of people while growing up, a woman that is saucy,does not value respect while growing up, a woman that doesnt know how to cook,does not value learning how to cook while growing up. A man/woman that does not value neatness of body or home will always have problems with their partner because of it when he/she eventually marry. A man that is not contended while growing up ,with what he has, will not be contended when he eventually marries, because he didnt value contentment, A man/woman that doesnt know or value his/her responsibilities as a man/woman while growing up,how does he/she value it if he/she eventually marries? Can you give what you do not have? You cant give what you dont have... The sensitive issues we overlooked while growing up does contribute to the problems we talk about or experience in marriage. A man/ woman that cannot deal with their hot tamper or temperament while growing up,or may be nobody adviced them on how bad it can be, what do You expect if he/she marries? They will be fighting always. If a man/woman does not value God while growing up as a child or youth,or nobody encouraged them at that stage,how easy will it be for them to reverence God if he /she eventually marries...The most challenging stage of life is in growing up because choices made at that time can affect marriage positively or negatively. When a man or a woman grow up on a wrong foundation or with a bad orientation,then you can fore see how dangerous that person will likely be in the nearest future if that issue is not addressed on time.Ask yourself was it easy for You to break up with a bad habit you took up as a child? Parents take care of children,advice them
Posted on: Tue, 27 Jan 2015 09:44:00 +0000
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