Everybodys doing it and talking about it... So can you, if you decide to try. Everyone asks why. Why take the risk of having an open relationship when you have children? They perceive open as non-committed. Why take the risk of being polyamorous when you are so happy together? They perceive polyamory as a selfish choice rather than a realistic choice supporting an inclination. Rather than argue those misconceptions, my answer is this. The reason we are so blissfully happy is because we have an open relationship. Being monogamous is a horrible risk. And for us at least, a greater one than polyamory. Monogamy is designed to keep couples together by creating barriers of exit; socially; financially and psychologically. One cannot look at the divorce statistics to ascertain how successful it is; this only proves how many couples remain married. Not how many couples remain happily married... Judging by how many marriages now end in divorce since it became more socially acceptable, thats not many over the long term. Nor does it show how many couples are monogamous by law and yet have some element of infidelity within their configuration, be it emotional or physical. huffingtonpost.co.uk/louisa-leontiades/my-problem-with-monogamy_b_4095630.html
Posted on: Sun, 07 Dec 2014 03:55:23 +0000
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