Everyone has hundreds, even thousands of desires which range from the smallest desires such as sleeping in a little bit longer in the morning, to the biggest desires of making millions of dollars and having the life of your dreams. There are desires that come into your mind on a daily basis that you don’t even notice they are automatically fulfilled. These desires include eating, drinking, and even breathing air. You don’t even think about it, you just fulfill these desires because they are needs. Other desires that are noticeable and still easy to fulfill are your wants. Wants are desires that are reasonably easy to achieve if you take action on them. Desires at this level can include asking that special someone out on a date for the first time, or getting that job that you want. These desires require a little effort to fulfill, they don’t just happen like your basic need desires do. The biggest desires that you have, otherwise known as dreams are not as easy to achieve. In fact, these desires are seen by most people as pretty much impossible to fulfill. The reason why they seem as impossible desires is that the effort to put in to achieve them is so great and there is no guarantee that they will be fulfilled even after the effort is put forth. The problem is not that the greatest desires that you have are impossible to be fulfilled, it is that you’re in the wrong mindset. This is caused by many factors. There are some things you can do to change your mindset into one that will allow you to not only believe that the biggest desires are achievable, but also to give you the methods to start the process of drawing these desires towards you and turning them into reality. 1.Become a positive person Being positive is absolutely essential. I won’t go into how to become a more positive person, which is another article entirely. Just know that if you have negativity in your mind, you will never be able to turn a bigger desire into something achievable, let alone into a reality. 2.Surround yourself with like-minded people If you want to turn your dreams into reality, you must have help. The biggest desires require the most effort to achieve and are almost impossible to do by yourself. You need to start surrounding yourself with people in your life who have the same desires. Like-minded people who are positive, goal-oriented, and believe that dreams can come true. 3.Put yourself in the right Environment Just as important as the people you surround yourself with, is the environment you surround yourself with. This means that if your desire is to be a writer and make a living by writing and blogging online then you need to learn all you can about blogging, how to get traffic for your site, how to write better, how to network with fellow bloggers and so on. The same goes if you want to open your own business and become a millionaire. You need to learn everything you can about the business niche you want to get into and surround yourself with people in that area as well. The reasons for surrounding yourself in the environment are not only to learn and network, but to keep the desire growing. If you don’t keep the desire strong, you will surely fail. This leads me to the next method. 4.Stay driven and be passionate Drive and passion are the two most important aspects that separate the people who will achieve their greatest desires from those who will not. What will you do when you hit a wall or negative thoughts start to hit you along your journey? This will happen at some point by the way. You need to have the drive to keep pushing in hard times and the passion for your desire to keep it alive. 5.Use the Force Seriously, once you start believing and taking the right steps towards your desires, the universe, upper consciousness, the creator, God, whatever you want to call it, it will start to draw your desires towards you. The key is to believe that your desire will be a reality, keep the desire in your main thoughts at all times, and see yourself living the dream.
Posted on: Mon, 19 Aug 2013 21:58:48 +0000