Everyone of you needs affection. If you have to ask your spouse or partner to be more affectionate, youre already resentful that you have to ask. Plus, it puts pressure on that person. So...act, dont ask. Lead by example!! I dont care where my husband and I are at, the stares we get, the people who whisper as they take notice.... my husband will get the back rub while standing in line wherever we are, the hugs and holding hands, the kisses, the touches, etc. Here’s my definition of affection: Affection is the kind of love that leaves you feeling close, safe, and cared for. Love is the commitment and the action, and affection is the safe, secure feeling that results. Strong marriages thrive when both the behavior of love and the feelings of affection are present. This “love as actions” is what moves you the 18 inches from your head to your heart. Maybe youll get a thrill from seeing your partner in a brand-new way, or maybe youll feel a jolt when he/she reciprocates. Whatever the cause, be sure to recognize that rush of lust and longing when it happens. And when you get home, do something about it.
Posted on: Wed, 12 Nov 2014 14:12:50 +0000
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