Express: I hope ma.post jud ni akong ganahan e.share labi na sa mga naay mga uyab diha How to maintain a healthy relationship: 1. CONSISTENTLY give time, and care to your partner 2. CONSISTENTLY show love even if in small ways 3. CONSISTENTLY show to your partner how important he/she is to you Noticed the consistently words repeated in the 3 guidelines? Thats how must love is, there must be that continuos flow of affection even how many years will pass. Ive met her when shes a new student in this school. 1 year among gap kay ako 2nd yr hs then siya 1st yr hs. I find her beautiful jud, she never failed to let me smile everytime she passed by. Shes so smart, kind and so innocent matod pa sa iyang mga friends. Naka-ila ko maayo niya through the help of our mutual friends. Maka-ingon jud ka nga class kaayo siya nga pagkatao kay gikan man siya ug rich family then ako kay kanang okay okay ra ang family status. Years passed, college time. Engineering akong gi-take then siya kay Education sa lain school. Karun ra sad ko naka-take ug courage to talk to her. I confessed my feelings for her and grabeh akong kalipay when she said that she has been loving me when we were still in highschool. Grabe kalipay nako mga cho ato ohy. Naa ngd mi sa dating stage. But then, since Ive been joining lots of affliations, I had failed to communicate with her which stopped our connection. 1 year passed, which is 3rd yr college nko then siya 2nd yr college na, Ive learned from our friends that naa na shay bf. Sakita sa akong buot oy pero wa koy mahimo kay sala sad to nako gud. Pero bahala na, matod pa nila, patience is a virtue. So, I have waited patiently until ga.break sila for unknown reason. Pila ka.months nilabay after her break-up, I asked her out and had a heart-to-heart talk. She gave me a chance which I gladly accepted it. I promised her that I will not repeat the past again and I will make things better. Pero, nakaon ra sad nako akong mga words oy. I was always busy and wasnt able to gave time to her. Bisag text/call lang once a week, bsag greet lang sa iyang birthday, christmas, and a like. Kabantay sad ko nga sayup akong gibuhat. After how many months, 4th yr college nko then siya 3rd yr college na, nagparamdam nasad ko niya. Still, she gave me a chance to fix that complicated relationship in the past. I tried my best jud at that time, I always asked her out, gave her gifts, even though ni-angal na siya kay she knew ra ba nga di jud ko dato. Bahala na basta para to niya. Okay na unta to amung relationship kung wa ko nagpadala sa akong ka.busy. Ambot oy nganung wa ko nakahatag ug time niya. Bisag simple lang unta to nga bisita, tawag or text man lang, pero wa jud nako gibuhat kay lagi tungod lagi sa akong pagka.busy. Naabtan nalang gd nga pulos nami graduating... Month of december ang akong di makalimtan. On the 1st day of december, I asked her out (again) and we talked. Also, at that time, I gave her gift for makind amends. I asked for apologies and luckikly she forgave me. I thought that time that right now, everything would be perfect. On december 24, She texted me that she left a gift to my sister for me. When I asked her what was it, she just replied that I would know if Ill open it. Mixed emotions akng na-feel that time. I asked her if she could stay at our house for a while but she declined. I rushed home after that (gkan kog laag with friends), dako kaayo nga box akong naabtan that time. When I opened it, ang sulod kay: all the gifts I have given to her. I was totally shocked, with a question in my head: why?. I noticed a letter pasted on the box, with a note written: I appreciate everything youve done for me but then I think things have changed. Ive been longing for you and been patiently waiting but I got tired. I had agreed to meet you last December 1 because I want to make sure if the love that I feel since Ive known you is still there but unfortunately, the feelings gone. I just wanted to tell you for the last time that I have loved you but I wanted to say goodbye. P.S, there is a bracelet attached to the last gift you gave me. I hope it will remind you to pursue your journey to become an engineer! :) And thats it, that was our last day of communication. I am now a successful engineer who was still wearing that bracelet. Last thing Ive known, she was happily engaged to a lucky guy. If I have just been consistent, will I be that husband of hers? If ma-post ni, thank you daan :) Alumni
Posted on: Sun, 25 Jan 2015 14:00:26 +0000
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