Express concern not be their judge and jury. Love them over your fears. Know your place. Its not your life. They have to accept come what may. Jumping into anything we accept the terms knowing them or not. A hunkin leap of faith... is sometimes what we need to do. Its easy to stay in the place of familarity, comfort ... harder to embrace change and go to a place of unfamiliarity. Like jumping between worlds of what is... and what might be. Element of unknown. Variables. All spoken words over us. In or out of us. Voices saying do or dont do it. Cross roads. And sometimes we have to trust our best judgement, gut and hope for the best. So when a friend is going too fast or slow in a romantic relationship for example. It is easier to judge it based on our personal preference. And the idea of uncertainty ... we want to protect the people we care about. But at what lengths? Where is this source coming from? Fear... uncertain... unsure... scared of them getting hurt.... or is it something else? Point is. No matter which road we choose or choice we make. It is always a shot in the dark. Leap of faith. That no matter what comes your way. That you have the ability to make it through. May not have the best judgement all the time to make the right move. But no that life is fluid and not always so set in stone. If change can happen for the worse .... why is it you have such a hard time believing in the better? Even the smallest leap in faith in even knowing logical good and bad can happen for every bad experience the silver lining affect can happen. Helps. Fight not just this one time but for a lifetime. Every single bad thought that envades our mind. Counter it with at least one positive. I dare you to try. Do not worry about results. Just do what you can. Bread crumbs make the bread whole even the tinny bit of crumb can make the bread whole. Believe in something. Even if you are holding on by a thread.
Posted on: Fri, 26 Sep 2014 07:28:20 +0000
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