FACEBOOK AND OUR MINDSET (True experiences during my three days in facebook) “It may be that the same thing people find attractive is what they ultimately find repelling.” Effects Symptoms such as the unreasonable length of time spent for using or checking their facebook account, if their time for using facebook can cause detrimental effects anxiety, depression and other psychological disorders to their life resulting to neglect of work and responsibilities, among others. If you think that you are getting a stressful life and experiencing significant changes in your behavior, routine and personality because of facebook, then you just might be one of the victims of facebook addiction. Teenage “hyper-social networkers” are more likely to engage in risky behaviors, such as smoking, drinking, drug use, fighting and promiscuity. Facebook has other bad effects like distracting us from studying, doing our daily work or even to workout. How to Defeat a Facebook Addiction Recognize the signs of a Facebook addiction. Start questioning what youre doing on Facebook. Decide what is of value on Facebook. Try giving up Facebook for a specific event to see how you fare. Target solutions to enable smarter, brighter usage of Facebook in the future. 1. Be Responsible 2. Self Discipline 3. Engage Yourself in Other Activities 4. Build Social Network With Friends and Family 5. Manage Time 6. Read Books or Travel To New Places 7. Delete Facebook Account My advice on sisters 1. When you talk about your friends “anonymously” on Facebook, we know exactly who you’re talking about. People are smarter than you think they are. Stop posting passive-aggressive statuses about the myriad of ways your friends disappoint you. 2. Never let a man make you feel weak or inferior because you are an emotional being. Emotion is good; it is nothing to be ashamed of. Emotion makes us better – so long as it remains in it’s proper place: subject to truth and reason. 3. Stop saying things like, “I don’t care what anyone thinks about me.” First of all, that’s not true. And second of all, if it is true, you need a perspective shift. Your reputation matters – greatly. You should care what people think of you. 4. Don’t play coy or stupid or helpless to get attention. Don’t pretend something is too heavy so that a boy will carry it for you. Don’t play dumb to stroke someone’s ego. Don’t bat your eyelashes in exchange for attention and expect to be taken seriously, ever. You can’t have it both ways. Either you show the world that you have a brain and passions and skills, or you don’t. There are no damsels in distress managing corporations, running countries, or managing households. The minute you start batting eyelashes, eyelashes is all you’ve got. 5. You are beautiful. You are enough. The world we live in is twisted and broken and for your entire life you will be subjected to all kinds of lies that tell you that you are not enough. You are not thin enough. You are not tan enough. You are not smooth, soft, shiny, firm, tight, fit, silky, blonde, hairless enough. Your teeth are not white enough. Your legs are not long enough. Your clothes are not stylish enough. You are not educated enough. You don’t have enough experience. You are not creative enough. You were created for a purpose, exactly so. You have innate value. You are loved more than you could ever comprehend; it is mind-boggling how much you are adored. There has never been, and there will never be another you. Therefore, you have unique thoughts to offer the world. They are only yours, and we all lose out if you are too fearful to share them. You are beautiful. You are valuable. You are enough. My Conclusion “Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living the result of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinion drowned your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, they somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” –Steve Jobs When was the last time you woke up and realized that today could be the best day of your life? Participate in your dreams today. There are unlimited opportunities available with this new day. Take action on those wonderful dreams youve had in your mind for so long. Remember, success is something you experience when you act accordingly. Success is not something you HAVE, its something you DO. Our society has been hypnotized into believing that a student who is successful in school will be successful in life, and, although this may occasionally be true, the opposite is not necessarily false. Live a true and purposeful life. Take action towards your dream. Share your success and enthusiasm. Make your life worth remembering. Behind every successful student, there is a deactivated Facebook account. For more help send me: sreturn237@gmail
Posted on: Sun, 14 Sep 2014 21:48:56 +0000
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