FALSE BONDS False bonds show up for me when I have knee jerk reactions to things (when I am not discerning), it naturally leads me to proving my beliefs, which leads me to false bonds with my parents, which leads to multi generational false bonds. Remember the sins of the father.........? A false bond I had with my father was that I withdrew when confronted with pain or conflict. It felt a natural thing to do at the time (a very unhealthy approach). A false bond with my mother was I also believed that I was not loveable (although not true at all). A false bond between my parents that showed up for me was that each believed that they were not entitled to love, intimacy and connection from each other or anyone else. And again, these three elements were not a part of my life because I falsely bonded with my parents on this matter. Well, I have given up these false bonds and I am living the life of my dreams; I feel and fully accept that healthy conflict leads to deeper relationships, I am very loveable, and I feel that love, intimacy and connection are the greatest gifts in life. I let go the false bonds and I have discovered a new world; one full of love, intimacy and connection. I am not my beliefs.
Posted on: Tue, 15 Oct 2013 18:40:01 +0000