FINDING TRUE LOVE STARTS WITH YOU Hey everyone; hope you are feeling awesome today! You know love can sometimes be hard to find, let alone maintain it. No one was born knowing all the tricks of keeping someone or making them happy for the rest of their life. Yes, you can do all kinds of love gestures including even getting married to them. But that still won’t exempt you from the hard lessons about love you still have to learn. My greatest concern though is that, most people seem to have lost all hope in love. They don’t believe in finding true love anymore. I guess the fear of exposing ourselves to the possibility of yet another heartbreak or love tragedy has gripped us with chains of steel. Personally, I don’t believe that the quest for true love is something we should be afraid or even ashamed of especially if you have a pretty clearer idea of the kind of person you are looking for. Chances are, if you know yourself better you have a better chance of choosing someone who is more suitable for you. There is no formula though. So my recommendation is that you take more time trying to get to know yourself better. Date yourself first before you date someone else. Be your own best lover first before seeking someone else to love you the way you would want to be loved. Again, always remember that your partner can only love you as best as you can love yourself - expect nothing more. That could probably explain why most of our relationships seldom work because most of us have not yet found true love for our own selves. We seek and demand it from others before we seek and demand it from our own selves. Here is a simple question: How much do you love yourself? That indirectly will answer how much you will love someone else. You see, you cannot give what you dont have. Most of us always act out of contempt and reproach towards ourselves. We constantly discredit our own value and true worth, yet we want others to show us the kind of love we are not already giving to our own selves. This is why the subject of sensuality is so close to my heart. Because it teaches us how we can improve in the area of truly and genuinely loving ourselves. The more you can discover that genuinely love for yourself the happier you will be. You see, it all starts with you. So today I encourage you to start showing more love and affection to yourself than you usually do. Be kinder and understanding towards yourself. Forgive yourself every day. Be your own best lover and sensual friend. Learn how to live a sensual Lifestyle, for it will empower you to be the kind of lover you ever dreamed you could be. Stay blessed!
Posted on: Sat, 22 Mar 2014 20:19:41 +0000
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