FIRST EMAIL from August 18th: Hi Zane iam a 33 year old woman I had some questions Ok I been with my baby daddy for5 years but for 13mos he been in tx an iam in ca we have a son together a 3year old but an I have ,4 other kids but he took on we been have problems because when I was in tx I. Took care of everything but when I said I eint take my kids to see my famliy in ca he started to flip out but we all took trip are car broke down an we were stuck in ca on able to get back to tx so he left an went back it been 13 mos I havent seen him no help for us to get back an he always saying we a family but I cant get him to help us get back or him come here what. Should I do SECOND EMAIL from August 19th AFTER I told her that he was full of crap: Yes iam working in own apartment he told me that he coming but come up with reasons why cant. Come an now he stay with a auntie that I never seen talk to an now he call me like ever 8 hours most time text I really think he living with another woman but he send me text saying he wont his famliy but to me he doing nothing about it what you think THIRD EMAIL from October 16th: Hi zane I wrote you in aug about my baby daddy we took a trip to ca from Texas and we didnt have the money to get back after car broken down so I was pregnant Iost baby at 4 m but I got places an me an my kids still here in ca so we was trying to working the relationship but every day I talk to him he saying iam cheating an everything else so before I got with him I had 4 kids and we havr 1 so he havent did anything for his son and my kids so now mad that my 6 --year old dad how never ever meet him came last week to see my son and do for him so now he mad saying iam a hoe an iam cheating with son dad an iam disrespect him for him come now after 6 year but I see it as help my son how told me I dont have a dad I wont your opinion on this iam lose CURRENT EMAIL: Hi zane I email you some months ago about me an my famliy taking a trip from Texas n to Ca but on the way car broke down an me an my famliy got stuck in Ca But my boyfriend as I was trying to get back to ca he started tripping and I send him back home with out us because I didt have the. Money so months pass we talk about trying to see if ca would work for are famliy so he told me to find a places an he would come down that july 2013 this is now dec 2014 he come up with ever reason why he cant come o his tickets got stolen or his mom in hospital but I didt day we have 1 son together an I have 4 other kids so he been telling me he love me that we are a family he never leave me we just having little problems but- on dec 18 I get a text from someone from his phone but it was not him it wad a woman on his phone calling me saying stop calling my man so I talked to her she telling me they been together 10 mos an she 8m pregnant but he saying she lie he not with anyone but I know he lieing but know he mad at me saying iam drama because she telling me he said he have no kids an she talking stuff about my son so he mad at me for telling the girl the real we been together for 6 years an we have a son so now he wont call just text my phone an sayings its not what you think but I know iam not crazy what should I do MY RESPONSE: Young Lady, I told you months ago that he was a liar and had moved on. New Mexico and Arizona are the only TWO STATES between Texas and California. It does not take someone SEVENTEEN MONTHS to make that trip. He could have walked there by now if that was his desire. You know that the other woman is not lying. He removed you from the equation and had probably never even mentioned you to her prior to December 18th. Please let it go. That man is not coming there to be with you and the five children, including the one that belongs to him. You say that you are working and have a place. Do the best that you can and if it makes sense and he has two nickels to rub together, put him on child support. Do not expect him to come visit. Do not expect him to move there. He is with someone else who is just as gullible if she thought that you were making everything up when you spoke to her. Eventually, he will dog her ass out as well. I am sorry that this happened but it looks like you are on your own for now. Concentrate on building a life for you and the kids. Good luck.
Posted on: Sun, 28 Dec 2014 14:03:22 +0000
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