FOUR QUESTION YOU MUST ANSWER BEFORE YOU SAY TAKE ME TO ALTER FOR WEDDING I humbly want to unleash this lesson to you,some girls because of their anxiety towards marriage,they rush into marriage without thorough preparation,without knowing that it is better to be single praying to be married,than to be married praying to be single. In the road of preparation of marriage,you must answer this four question if you must enjoy your marriage. 1). Can we talk? As they say communication brings unity,some crippled marriage are caused by lack of communication! Some husband and wife are horney and sweety but still there are some issue they dont discuss together,if you people are not open to each other,it will bring lack of trust,thereby leading to quarrel and crippled marriage.Ladies,if a man cannot share his dreams,plans,objectives with you among other things,then know you people cant talk. 2).Do we like each others family? Hmmmmm! Do I hear you say family? Yes! Some people do this mistake especially girls,they says it is the man I am getting married to and not the family. Hahaaha! You cannot marry the man without marrying his family,do you love your spouse family? If no, think twice!some wife do not like visiting the inlaws place likewise the man! For you to have a sweet marriage,you must get to love your spouse family just like your own. 3).Can we be friends? Best marriage is the marriage that happen between best of friends and not best of lovers! This is why we have crippled marriages all over the world,they prefer marrying their lovers and neglecting friends,with this excuse I am use to him or her,if you are use to her that is even better,because she knows when you have and when you dont have,she understands your mood, when you marry your lover when love fade,cripple marriage begins to set in! Your friend copes with any situation he/she find theirself but when you marry your lover she identifies you as horney when there is money and identifies you as victors father(mpa victor) when there is no money! So even though you want to marry your lover,you must convert him/her to best of friend. 4).Can I die for my spouse? Hahahahaha! Very difficult,Abi? But you must answer it before you say take me to the Alter! This could also mean seeking the benefit of your spouse before your own! Some ladies will eat the remaining food at home and pretend they have not taken anything when their husband return,likewise some men eating at a fast food joint and when they return they continue yelling,pretending as if they have not eaten! When this happen in a marriage,that marriage is about to be crippled in the next few years! Written by minister kenneth Nwankpa If this message have touch your life you can write to me in my timeline,you can also ask question for further clerification. Thanks for reading You can send me your friend request if you need personal counselling
Posted on: Wed, 14 Jan 2015 09:51:46 +0000
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