FROM MY INBOX W/MY RESPONSE: SHE: My husband and I had an argument. He packed his bags and left me and his 3-yr-old son for 10 months. During that time, we talked on the phone and he visited his son as well. After the 10 months, he came back home without us establishing any rules and I allowed it because it was happening faster than I could process it. When that happened, he always asked me what I did in that time or who Id been with. My question is, is that any of his business what I did in that time or can he hold me to any thing that I have done? Thank you. MY RESPONSE: You have much bigger problems than what he has a right to know! You let him back in with no preparation, no boundaries, and no structure. You havent got a clue how many women he was with and youre CLEARLY hiding the men you were with. Nobodys been tested, everybodys unprotected, and youre BIGGEST concern is him drilling you about what you did??? Hes likely doing that to distract you from focusing on what he did, but your own guilty conscience is making you ask this question. Its a defense mechanism that not only wont work - its irrelevant. This situation is a train wreck looking for a place to crash and burn! Unless you seek some qualified professional third-party assistance to make some RADICAL changes in how you are together - I see NOTHING but disaster ahead and your child being caught in the cross fire because his parents were so consumed with themselves that they didnt do what it took to provide him a healthy, happy, sane relationship to grow up in. I sincerely hope for your sons sake, if no one elses, you create some sanity - either with his father or without him. But if you keep doing what youre doing and going where youre headed, there is NOTHING but disaster waiting for you. All the best to you.
Posted on: Sun, 06 Apr 2014 02:12:29 +0000
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