FROM UCHE OGBUAGU TO YOU My precious single friends, I want to give you a “love checklist” to help you avoid pouring your heart into the wrong relationship. Trust me: it is better to be single and satisfied than heartbroken...so here is the list 1. Look at the way a man/woman loves his mother/father, because it is the way he/she will eventually love his/her wife/husband. 2. Pay attention to the way he/she reacts when there is stress or conflict. ... 3. Meet his/her friends and keep in mind that the people he/she hangs with are a reflection of his/her heart. 4. Pay attention to what your good friends see in him/her, because often those who love you can see better than you can see when you’re falling in love. 5. Look at what he/her reads and what he/she watches on television, because they will be a reflection of his/her moral fiber. 6. Do your best not to be too physical, because it will cloud your vision and confuse your heart. 7. It is imperative that a man/woman respect your boundaries without challenging them. 8. Ask him/her to pray for you often, because you will need a man/woman who knows how to cover you in prayer. 9. Ask yourself whether you feel at home when you’re with him/her or whether you act like someone you’re not to get him/her to like you. 10. Before you say “I do,” go through premarital counseling with a pastor. Let Pray Dear Lord, I pray for my future husband/wife, wherever he/she is in the world right now. Prepare me to become the kind of bride/bridegroom he/she will need when we come together. Until You make me ready for him/her, let the only intimate relationship I seek be with You. Blind my eyes from wanting any other man/woamn than the one You have for me. Remove all men/women in my life who may keep me from recognizing him. Give me wisdom to seek what is pure and right in Your sight while I wait for him/woman. Put such a deep a passion in my heart for my purpose that I won’t be distracted or discouraged from pursuing all that You have for me. Deliver me from the traps of the enemy, and train me now to resist temptation. Keep me from falling into a counterfeit relationship, and give me the strength not to settle for second best. Give me the stamina to run this “singles” race until I cross the finish line and receive his/her heart—and Your blessing—as the prize. Type Amen in agreement
Posted on: Wed, 10 Jul 2013 04:38:09 +0000
Trending Topics
Recently Viewed Topics
© 2015