Fan Question! Absolutely No Bashing! Okay. So I never thought I would be writing this page but I need advice I guess and I am going to give you guys some background so you actually know what is going on. My husband of five years whom I have two children with and am pregnant with the third thinks I cheated on him and calls me a whore and a liar. So. Here is what happened. From the beginning of the problems. His cousin, who was really like his brother was killed in Afghanistan in 2012. So he has some issues with that and he has PTSD because he was in the war as well. Losing his cousin just made it worse. Anyways, last year in February he asked me to leave multiple times so.. I did. After crying at work. Almost losing my job. Having to leave work to cry and all kinds of stupid shit. I left. I went to a friends house (a female friend) and then I got my divorce going because that is what he wanted and I wanted to get the custody thing done while we could be civil and before the kids were old enough to know fully what was going on. So I got that under way and I started seeing someone else because I didnt want to be lonely and I knew the guy was a rebound. I chose a piece of shit on purpose so I would not fall in love with him. I literally chose a rebound to be a rebound and to make my husband jealous because he broke me. Not just my heart. Hr broke me. And then my husband started begging for me back and I ended up coming back and I told him that I didnt sleep with the rebound (duh I slept with him. Thats the only reason I started seeing him) and then he kept begging me to tell the truth because he knew I had slept with him. So I told hin yes I slept with the guy WHILE WE WERE APART and after HE told me to leave multiple times and even told me to go find someone else cause he would never want me back. I tried for years to make our relationship work before I left and just got sick of him telling me to leave and emotionally abusing me (which he still does).. I want my marriage to work but he sees it as me cheating on him and I dont because we were seperated, not living together, and all upon his request. My question is what is your opinion. Did I cheat? How can we fix our marriage? Any advice. If yall have questions ask them. I will answer to the page and ask them to comment it. Please dont bash me. I will just have them delete the post and I will ask another page. Also, I feel that you guys should know that he is majorly addicted to pormography and blames me for it. (I am telling yall this becaudr it is something we fight about ALOT) and yes addicted like bought a tablet to go down the road and get wifi to look it up and will use my phone when I am asleep to look it up and I have caught him with pictures of his moms boyfriends daughter before at his Moms house. So I dont really know. Are we doomed? I dont know if you guys do this but... if yall do please post it. If not just let me know please :) Reposted by #Kcoop
Posted on: Tue, 20 Jan 2015 22:31:10 +0000
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