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Fan needs advice- Here is a valid question that I think will fit your site. When my fiancé and I got together, his then wife had moved out of the house and was running the roads getting high and screwing around (her description not ours), and left him with their 3 kids. Anyway, she found out we were talking, told me “I suggest you step off”. Well coming from someone like that, it’s the last thing I was going to do. Anyway, that year he was hospitalized for 3 weeks, she moved back into the house to “care” for the children. When he was discharged he asked her to leave again, she refused, saying it was time they work on their marriage. He got himself together financially and left shortly after. Not long after that we moved in together. When he left she turned the house into a party house, allowed the kids to drink and get high, and eventually got evicted. So now she’s homeless and sent the kids to live with us (she now lives with her parents). They are now legally divorced, and the kids have been living with us for 3 years. She sees the kids 3-4 times a year (we live about an hour away). She has sent no financial help in the 3 years the kids have been with us. And constantly has to put her 2 cents into our lives. She recently lost it, because I referred to the kids as my family and one of the kids referred to us as “her parents”, and she quickly reminded the kid I’m not her mother…. So how long does this bitterness continue? How long is her poor choices and bad life our fault? How long until she moves on with her life and lets go to find her own happiness? reposted by
Posted on: Wed, 13 Nov 2013 02:59:56 +0000

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