Fan post No bashing Please can I remain anonymous? In need of advice. My teenage step daughters live with us as their mother couldnt cope with them. They wont help,out with anything around the house, go straight out after school and straight yo their room when they get home. Refuse to eat breakfast or dinner with us and barely acknowledge my two little ones. They are also very hostile towards me when I speak to them, and recently told their mother Is am always telling them to go home to her and dont provide for them at all. Theyve told her I dont give them the measly amount of child support as pocket money and I dont buy them any clothes etc. this resulted in their mother threatening yo best me up, and the police issuing a warning that bans her from contacting me. Theyve been spending more time with their mother end I thought they might be wanting to go home, but this isnt the case. Hubby doesnt want them to go back to their mothers as he doesnt think they should swap schools at the moment, and he doesnt think theyll be better off living with her. I suffer from anxiety and depression and am constantly stressed to the eyeballs because I cant relax in my own home. I have to walk the dog or go to the gym just to de-stress. Hubby doesnt see why I feel this way because my sds are hardly here, and when they are, they stay in their room. Am I being irrational and unreasonable wanting them to go back home to their mother? Theyve lived here for 3 years and their behaviour/refusal to be part of the family is just getting worse. I constantly feel like crying send dont know how much more step parent related stress I can take. Rp by *BN*
Posted on: Fri, 19 Sep 2014 19:07:28 +0000